Rare but valuable: do modern girls need gentlemen

The image of a gentleman has always been very popular with women. A man with such qualities as attentiveness, punctuality and nobility amazed many of the fair sex. The Russian writer Alexander Korol spoke about how interesting gentlemen are and whether they will be in demand among girls.

Over the past 10 years, Russians have felt free and liberated in many areas of life. After the 90s, it became possible to travel, buy imported goods. Later, people began to use social networks. Today, the virtual world has become an opportunity for everyone to meet different people, find friends or a soul mate. Against this background, Tinder and other dating sites began to appear. Due to the large selection, people have become spoiled and lost their reverent attitude towards each other. Representatives of the stronger sex allow themselves impudent behavior towards girls.

Before the advent of gadgets and the Internet, every acquaintance was valued and men were not tempted to leave with a "fallback" option on the side. Building relationships with a man who does not appreciate a woman, the latter loses her femininity, becomes more closed and rude.

Is it a gentleman?

Among the majority of men today there is a small number of representatives of the stronger sex who can claim the title of "gentleman". How to identify them? According to the expert, there are a number of qualities inherent in this rare category of gentlemen.

“They know how to thank, understand and observe the norms of decency, and are also ready to wait for a girl if she is delayed or cannot meet. Today, even such pleasant little things surprise and delight a woman, distinguishing a man from among many. If you take a closer look at the concept of “gentleman”, then it translates as “gentle man.” One of its main features is accuracy and unwillingness to violate the comfort zone,” says Alexander Korol, emphasizing that such men are alien to demonstrativeness. They do not seek to create some kind of spectacular image in which they appear before the ladies. These men are distinguished by naturalness.

"A real gentleman will not actively lead social networks, posting his photos with a pumped-up torso in front of a mirror. Most often, such people are modest and try not to flaunt themselves. Such a person will treat a woman like a flower. He will think more about a girl than about himself : how did she get there, what is she interested in, what does she dream about, etc.,” the expert gives examples.

Modern girls dream of such men. Why? Women of the 21st century tend to take on many obligations, for example, study, career and family, while fearing to rely on the stronger sex. They themselves do not notice how they become strong and masculine. “Many ladies dream of having a person nearby who they can rely on in difficult situations and feel safe. Every girl wants to awaken her feminine energy next to such a person, ”Alexander Korol is sure.